Just coming back from another deepening block in my HAKOMI studies. I am exhausted and inspired at the same time. The more I am "getting" my Self and let go of unnecessary clutter, like limiting behaviours or old patterns, the closer I get to my personal Inner Sanctuary. It is amazing how we have learned and managed to float through life - but really only on the surface. There is sooo much more to IT.
And there are soooo many people/organizations and institutes out there offering services for us to get IT. More then ever. We are shifting - that's for sure.
Integrating the HAKOMI methods to my work is key. “Hakomi” is a Hopi Indian word that means “who are you” or “how do you stand in relation to these many realms.” Who we are and how we relate to the world can be partly understood through our “core material.” Core material consists of the memories, feelings, and beliefs that shape our perceptions, attitudes and behaviors. Our core material develops during our formative years. It reflects our experiences of childhood and our coping strategies. We all have core material around major themes:
Safety and Belonging
Support, Love and Appreciation
Freedom and Responsibility
Openness and Honesty
Control, Power, Sexuality, Membership, and the Social and Cultural Rules
Core material may not be conscious until we intentionally explore it. It influenced how we functioned in our families and childhoods. It forms a blueprint for our creating similar relationships and experiences in adulthood. Often it limits the expression of our authentic being. And authenticity is fundamental to physical, emotional and spiritual well-being.
Through self-study, core material may be discovered and processed for the purpose of transformation. When core material becomes conscious, we can make new choices and have new experiences. We can change how we experience both the world and others. The Hakomi Method uses an experimental attitude to explore experience and meaning. It is slow, gentle and supportive. Awareness deepens and understanding unfolds in a climate of trust and curiosity. Healing is accomplished through non-judgmental discovery, compassionate contact, and intuitive integration.
In Hakomi, present experience is studied in “mindfulness.” This is a quiet state of consciousness that allows us to observe internal experiences. In mindfulness, core material is evoked through statements, movements, touch, and other kinds of little experiments. Emotions, core beliefs and memories often emerge. Once conscious, we can work with our core material and change how we organize our experiences.
Through Hakomi, we bring to light what has been hidden, and as we do, we free ourselves from the limitations of the past.
The Hakomi Method is deeply influenced by Buddhism and is guided by five principles:
Mindfulness: Mindfulness allows us to see beyond habitual thoughts and behaviors to deeper truths within us. Mindfulness helps us uncover our compassion, wisdom, and authentic presence.
Unity: Each of us is a whole living system comprised of essential parts. We each participate in larger systems. All parts and systems are connected, interdependent and rely on communication. Hakomi helps to improve that essential communication.
Organicity: Each living “system is self-directing and self-correcting.” We have inner wisdom and freedom of choice. Hakomi therapists trust the natural unfolding process of an individual’s inner work.
Mind-Body Holism: Our minds and bodies “reflect the beliefs we hold about ourselves and about the world.” Our beliefs determine how we perceive or organize our experiences. Recognizing our beliefs is the first step in transformative change.
Non-Violence: Safety is essential for self-exploration. When defenses or resistance appear, they indicate a need for greater safety. Through respecting and appreciating their wisdom, defenses actually support the healing process.
A Space for Meditation, my own favorite design...
Chi windows 
in Gazebo
a Casual Dining space with fireplace..
... and the Garden Room 
Kitchen and Dining - 
Living room
Office...
Main Bath 
and Master Bedroom 
a Casual Dining space with fireplace..
... and the Garden Room
Kitchen and Dining - 
Living room
Office...
Main Bath 
and Master Bedroom 
